Bluegown Posted September 9, 2016 Report Share Posted September 9, 2016 Hello,i have been with my husband 20 years and he had always had a higher sex drive!Last night I found him on a porn site talking to a woman on their forum about stuff.i knee there was something up because he was on his phone constantly talking to complete strangers on this forum and watching live sex,he was even doing it while with our daughter.I feel heart broken!!Please help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paula Hall Posted September 13, 2016 Report Share Posted September 13, 2016 Like so many partners it looks like you've found out the hard way, though I'm not sure if your husband was trying very hard to hide it. It's very hard to know what to say to help unless your husband has said that he has a problem. There are of course lots of people who talk to people online in a sexual way who would not say they are addicted and would not see it as being unfaithful in any way. My advice would be to talk honestly to your husband and tell him how upset you are by his behaviour. Ask him if he thinks it's a problem and if it's getting worse and if so then he needs to get some help. There is a self help assessment on this website which he could complete (totally anonymous) or have a look at the resource at www.sexaddictionhelp.co.uk. If he doesn't think he's got a problem, then I guess that leaves you wondering what you can do. You certainly don't have to agree to live with this, but the choice to leave is never an easy one. The first step has got to be trying to talk to him about what's going on and how you can resolve it. Hope that helps. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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