Kaykay Posted March 25, 2021 Report Share Posted March 25, 2021 I'm tired. How can I help and encourage him to see he is relapsing? Thank you xx 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firefly Posted March 27, 2021 Report Share Posted March 27, 2021 Hi Kaykay, I am very sorry to hear that your partner has relapsed! I can understand why you are tired after so many years of trying to help him! I would look at the blog and Paula's book again as this latest disclosure / discovery will have brought back Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) from the first painful discovery of your partners addiction. It's an awful roller-coaster for you and it's sad that he does not see the effects of his relapse on you. The partner’s journey through sex addiction : Rebuilding your life (thelaurelcentre.co.uk) You have been so helpful for other partners on here and hope we can be of some comfort for you today. Look after yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaykay Posted March 31, 2021 Author Report Share Posted March 31, 2021 Thank you firefly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chrissy Posted April 12, 2021 Report Share Posted April 12, 2021 Hi KayKay, How have the last few weeks been? It's so difficult to lift yourself up after feeling so let down. It's even more difficult to 'hold yourself' in this time of pain and be there for your partner. In the past what has enabled him to see he's relapsed? Has it been you showing him or him coming to his own conclusions? Sending a big hug xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaykay Posted April 13, 2021 Author Report Share Posted April 13, 2021 Hi chrissy. So it's actually come out that he cheated on me several times back in 2018. I feel sick and devastated. I've made him leave this evening. I dunno for how long. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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