Clearly as a Forum member you can use the private mail function within the Forum, but this is not recommended by the Laurel Centre. i.e. Do NOT give out personal details.
If you do decide to meet self-care is especially important. Set up the first meeting in a public place (which will of course be after Covid Lockdowns) and then decide what information you wish to share.
Administration would however suggest you do a Partner Workshop (or equivalent) together, and that