Nigel Posted July 6, 2019 Report Share Posted July 6, 2019 (edited) Hi i am a gay guy who has been in relationship for 13yrs. We are non scene and dont have any other gay friends. I discovered in April that after my partner got his first smart phone 3 years ago thathe downloaded the Grindr app. Unknown to me he had been having phone sex for many years previous. He used Grindr as the equivalent of phone sex but then he acted out and met someone. He went on to meet 8 men in 3 years , four of them multiple times and one many times for 1 1/2 yrs. He says he has no opinion of the men and there is no emotional connection. His variety of porn over the three years became more and more extreme and he got into BDSM masochism with them. Our sex life is pretty much vanilla. It has been a roller coaster of discovery for me and has eaten me up inside. I still love him very much and he says he never wants to do it again but he is reluctant to address his addiction even tho he acknowledges he behavior has been out of control. I see there are ladies on the forum who have been affected by this Grindr app. I just wondered if there are any other Gay guys who have been affected like I have. Edited July 6, 2019 by Nigel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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