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Hi I am a recovering sex addict a very very long way to go for me but I am on track. Will anyone be interested to know/work with me to recover on the sexual addictive behavior. Thanks (You help me more than I help you by me sharing the message that I have freely received)
My husband has been seeing escorts for years, before we got together. I found out 3 years ago, and at that point my husband was filled with remorse & desperate to change. He went to therapy, we talked a lot & after a year he seemed to have turned a page. Earlier this year he told me he misses it & doesn’t want to go back to therapy. He’s tried to dress it up as him being polyamorous & not suited to monogamy, but based on him using prostitutes & the things he’s said in the past, I don’t believe that to be true. I only agreed to stay with him when I found out because he was so convincing that he wanted to change, now I feel like I’ve used up all of my anger & am just burnt out & reluctantly accepting that this is my marriage & life now. We have a child together so that has a strong bearing on the situation, he’s a brilliant dad & I didn’t want my child to go through a divorce with us. I do love him, but I worry I’m going to grow bitter & resentful. I also have lost respect for myself, and him. I don’t know the point of this post really, I guess it’s just to get out there how I’m feeling & wonder if any addicts or wives of addicts have any insight into this, someone who has accepted their addiction & refuses to see it as a problem?
Hi everyone, I really need some help to change myself and try to get rid of some of my addictive sexual compulsive behaviours and am seeking any advice people can offer. I have only fully realised this problem too late and it has destroyed my first relationship with an amazing women who I think I have hurt deeply and who i really love. I am 25 and have struggled with an addiction to internet pornography since i was 14/15 which later progressed to visits to massage parlours and prostitutes for the past 1 1/2 years. I had been in this relationship since I was 19 and met her at university, lived together for 2 1/2 years and I think we genuinely loved each other despite some problems and a lack of emotional honesty and honesty now on my part. This was both of our first relationship and I got tempted by wanting to explore sex with other people but did not have the confidence or strength to admit this to her at the time and wandered down this path of sex behind her back. I confessed to her a couple of days ago and there is so much pain and hurt caused that I feel so sick and disgusted with myself for having subjected her to this and I just want my actions to not hurt her and for her to be OK and the happy and amazing person that she is without having ever been exposed to my ugliness and badness and problems. I have made an effort to stop both the pornography and sex workers and made progress but always relapsed. I am seeing a counsellor about depression and anxiety issues which I have had for most of my life and we are beginning to explore this, but I'd really like to know if there's any help or groups or anything I can talk to about this problem based in the London or Surrey area. I have been really selfish and this is not the person I want to be, I really want to try to make sure that this does not happen again and that I can never hurt anyone again and hopefully try to fix what damage I have done to my ex-girlfriend. I am quite desperate and confused about myself and appreciate any kind of help or advice anyone can give. Thank you