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  1. Hi you sound like you are in the same situation as me however my partner likes to visit massage parlours. He went twice whilst I was pregnant and once just after I had given birth. I had come across a search when I used his phone and continued to dig he just kept lying and lying till I asked for a lid detector. This was about 3 weeks ago we are trying to work through it and have seen a councillor he is now attending weekly sex addiction anonymous classes. My heart goes out to you it has completely broke me. The best thing I have done is confide in my closest friend and she has been my rock. Anyway good luck and if you ever want to talk about it drop me a message. xxx
  2. Hi Christine we went to see a councillor but found her very negative. Things are not great I feel very paranoid and feel like I shouldn't keep going on about it. I just feel lonely to be honest. Thanks for asking x
  3. Thank you for the reply. It gives me hope there might be some light at the end of the tunnel. Xxx
  4. My partner finally admitted after I found a load of evidence of him contacting massage parlours that he is a sex addict with a preference for sex workers. He only admitted it when I said that I would only stay with him if he took a lie detector test. After a lot of shouting, crying and every emotion possibly I have decided to stick with him we have 15 week old twin boys which is part of my decision but it hurts do bad. Some days I'm happy smiling other days I just want to end it all. 2 days ago he was at a job interview and I was sure he was lying and found myself driving to the massage parlour he has a preference for looking for his car and also wanting to see these girls. My head is all over the place I'm in tears writing this please tell me it gets easier. Also we still decided on the lie detector test as I needed to know things. We agreed to go together after our family holiday in March he then went and booked the test without me knowing and only told me about it when he'd past so he's still lying. We are starting couple counselling tomorrow but I'm not sure I'm strong enough for this.
  5. My partner finally admitted after I found a load of evidence of him contacting massage parlours that he is a sex addict with a preference for sex workers. He only admitted it when I said that I would only stay with him if he took a lie detector test. After a lot of shouting, crying and every emotion possibly I have decided to stick with him we have 15 week old twin boys which is part of my decision but it hurts do bad. Some days I'm happy smiling other days I just want to end it all. 2 days ago he was at a job interview and I was sure he was lying and found myself driving to the massage parlour he has a preference for looking for his car and also wanting to see these girls. My head is all over the place I'm in tears writing this please tell me it gets easier. Also we still decided on the lie detector test as I needed to know things. We agreed to go together after our family holiday in March he then went and booked the test without me knowing and only told me about it when he'd past so he's still lying. We are starting couple counselling tomorrow but I'm not sure I'm strong enough for this.
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