Sarah Posted September 6, 2018 Report Share Posted September 6, 2018 My partner and I have been together six years. I was married prievously and my husband had an affair that ended our marriage. A year ago I found out that my partner had had sex with two women during the course of our relationship. We discussed the issues around this, he was very honest and it became apparent that this was part of a pattern of behaviour which had varied in intensity through time over the years before he met me involving using escorts and porn use. We really want to move on from this together. I want to rebuild trust. Yesterday I found out accidentally that he’s been searching online again for escort services. We’ve talked about it and he says it’s part of fantasies he has but he’d never carry it through now. Whst next, counselling? Therapy? Will I always be on tenterhooks wondering for ever more? It would be great to have contact with others who understand because I can’t talk to anyone in real life and I’m at a total loss as to what next. Thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nicola Posted September 6, 2018 Report Share Posted September 6, 2018 Hi there, im sorry that you’re experiencing this trauma right now. I’ve been married to a sex addict for 30 years, some of them good but most of them terrible. We don’t seem to be able to break away from each other due to co-dependency issues. Are you getting help for yourself? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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