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Hi my husband has so much anger towards me . To the point he beat me up in our honeymoon. We live apart as I can't be alone with him as everytime we talk even if it just about everyday things he get angry nasty intimidating threatening I can't seem to say a word right it been almost 18 months since I found out about his addiction from porn to fantasizing over a woman in work and staring every pretty young girl he sees . He is with saa and has been for just over a year but is still no better now then he was back then in fact I would go as far as to say his anger has got worst and I'm at my wit's end as to what to do . I still love him and understand to a point he has an illness but it the temper I can't live with and the one week he loves me the next he wants a divorce I need help I'm going crazy 

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The situation you are in sounds very difficult. I am wondering what support you are receiving at the moment? Violence is not acceptable in any situation and you may want to consider contacting an agency who support people who have experienced domestic abuse. The anger and intimidation and violence are not part of an addiction and cannot be justified in this way. 

As a partner, of someone with an addiction you may also find it helpful to seek support and have therapy for yourself. So that you can talk through your own feelings and the sense of craziness you are experiencing. Not knowing where you are or where you stand and not knowing whether one day you will be loved or hurt sounds unsafe and confusing. Perhaps it will help if you consider what is right for you and what is acceptable for you. I hope you find the courage to make some decisions that are about your self care and support. Take Care Christine

 

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