Katie added a topic in Partner ConcernsNeed serious advice/supportI don't know who is out there and how to begin, or if I can even be helped but I am utterly lost.
i have a bf with three beautiful children, who I was/am deeply in love with. I have just discovered he has been addicted to porn for years. Worse than that, he has been addicted to a gay dating site and been using it for attention. Putting up explicit photos of himself, in our home. Recieving messages from guys, etc.
I have asked him if he is gay (the porn was gay too) and he promises he is not. He said that it was an extension of his porn addiction.
I really don't know what to think. I want to help him. But I don't think I'm strong enough. I cannot sleep, eat and feel no joy. He has betrayed me. And every time I have a quiet moment all I see are the naked photos of him and messages from guys and I want to get myself.
Its so hard to go about day to day life.
Please help me.
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